Writing with Uncomfortable Authenticity
The internet is flooded with shallow content, drowning out genuine voices. Authenticity is lost in favor of clickbaits and recycled wisdom.
But, what if I told you there’s a different way to write?
A way that’s raw, honest and vulnerable?
A way that’s unapologetically you!
The Power of Vulnerable Writing
Cheryl Strayed is a celebrated author known for her raw and honest writing style. Her memoir, “Wild”, is a testament to her ability to confront her fears and vulnerabilities head-on. But what I admire most about Strayed is her advice on writing authentically:
“Write with an authenticity that makes you uncomfortable.”
Embracing Uncomfortable Authenticity
Strayed’s words resonated with me because they go against the grain of what we’re often told about writing.
We’re encouraged to write what we know, but Strayed takes it a step further. She urges us to write what we’re afraid to say, what we’re uncomfortable sharing.
This type of writing requires vulnerability and courage.
My Journey to Authentic Writing
As someone who values honesty in writing, Strayed’s advice spoke to me.
I realized that I had been holding back in my own writing, afraid to share my true thoughts and feelings. But with Strayed’s words in mind, I started writing more authentically.
It wasn’t easy — it still isn’t — but it’s been liberating.
I’ve discovered a new depth in my writing, and a sense of freedom that comes with being vulnerable.
Here are a few practical tips that’s helping me write more authentically.
I hope it helps you too!
First, share your personal stories. Even if they’re scary or vulnerable.
- I shared about my struggles with self-doubt and grief after my wife’s passing, and how it affected my writing and relationships.
You can also write about what you’re still figuring out, not just what you’ve already mastered.
- I wrote about my journey of learning to be a single parent to my 9-year-old daughter and the challenges that come with it.
Remember to use your own voice, rather than trying to emulate someone else’s style.
- I stopped trying to write like my favorite authors. I started writing in my own unique voice, even if it meant using contractions and colloquialisms.
Join the Conversation
If you’re struggling to find your authentic voice in writing, I encourage you to take Strayed’s advice to heart.
Write about what scares you, what makes you uncomfortable. Share your secrets, your fears, your hopes. It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.
Remember, authenticity is what sets great writing apart from good writing. So, take a deep breath, and let your true voice shine through.
